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I am submissive man in my late 50`s that needs to be in the presence of a Dominate Woman to feel loved.
Not just any Dominate Woman. Someone who is honest, caring, & genuine.
Yet kinky as hell, & won`t take no for an answer.
I need my future Dominate to be local to the Chicago area, & over the age of 35.

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Soft and light, Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Slapping, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler
Orgasm during play:Depends on playmate

Ball Busting preferences

How Long have you practiced Ball Busting?Not to often
How high is your threshold of pain?Fairly Low

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:To be discussed at a later time
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:To be discussed at a later time

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildA few extra pounds
Height170 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureSmile
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Health ConditionDiabetes
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyTransportation
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Thoughtfulness
Our first dateDinner a few drinks, good truthful conversations, & some kinky fun afterwards.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byBondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingSomeone to play with
I live the lifestyleOnly in the bedroom
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Femdom, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesHigh Heels, Medical / Enema, Panty, Voyeurism, Other

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isIt's how I get aroused
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Dildos/Vibrators, Office supplies, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Animals, Scat, Blood, Children, Face Slapping.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyTo be discussed at a later time
Fantasy locationAt a park, Dark alley, Hotel/motel, On the beach, Public bathroom
Fantasy sex partner:To be discussed at a later time

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement
I like to wear:I like to be told to strip naked.
Then stand with my hands behind my head, my legs spread, & inspected.
Anticipation is a big turn on for me.
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Gloves, Hairbrush, Belt, Other
Response:Tears
Pain level:Light Marks

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I enjoy the occasional beating
I'm seeking:Occasional Meetings
Desired Persona:Changes with my partners
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, High heels and a business suit, Corsets
Ideal session:To be discussed at a later time
Ultimate femdom fantasy:To be discussed at a later time