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thomas

I am an elderly man of gentlemanly demeanor. Although an American by birth from San Francisco, I have lived much of my life in the French-speaking countries of Europe. I have worked in France and Switzerland as a newspaper and magazine reporter and covered war situations in Africa (Algeria, the
former Belgian Congo, etc. etc.). All my life, I have played the role of standard Male leader type in my relations with women. Now my true nature as a Submissive is coming out. I have much to learn in this regard and would appreciate having a good Trainer to teach me humble Submission as a slave. I must tell you that I am exclusively Heterosexual, so need my Trainer to be exclusively Female. I've been married twice, once unhappily, once deeply happily, but my 2nd wife died in 2006 due to cancer. I have three children, all grown with children of their own. My children live far away. Since 1980, I have lived in the Boston area. My second wife got into graduate school here and was pursuing both an academic and a literary career when she died. I am now retired but have become a novelist and am just finishing my second novel, to be published this year. I will then publish a book of stories and a 3rd novel that will be strongly autobiographical. And that is who I am and where I'm at, but now this strong Submissive desire has taken hold of me, so this is a call for HELP from the right Female Instructress!!!

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Crossdressing

I preferBottom
Been with a crossdresserNo
Looking for someone passable?Does not matter
Crossdressing ExperienceI have NO experience but am eager to cross-dress, under the guidance of the Right Female Trainer!

Public Sex preferences

Favorite public sex places:I do not have any favorite place. My only experience was in a public men's room aboard an ocean liner. This was with a woman who followed me in there--for the purpose of having sex. It was uncomfortable for us both and, though we locked the outer door, we risked discovery, banging on the door etc. etc. Later, we went to a private cabin.
The riskiest place I've had a sexual encounter:In that shipboard men's eoom

Facesitting Preferences

What kind of facesitting do you like?Full Weight
Being bound while red:No
Describe your favorite facesitting fantasyI am helpless, though not completely red. I feel her weight upon me while she urges me with insults to service her desires as she wishes me to service them. She keeps telling me how insufficiently useless I am, while I do my utmost to satisfy her....
Do you look at facesitting as a form of punishment?Sometimes

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildAverage
Height175 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthNeck length
Facial HairMoustache
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDisabled
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityDiscreetly
Has a carYes

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchAll the elements noted above. She has to be attractive to me, and I to her. I desire her to Dominant, to know what she wants and COMMAND IT! Sexually and otherwise.
Our first dateBefore the date, I want us to have a full written communication on this website, so that we both know enough about each other that we can look forward to the date. The first one should be in a public place, like a coffee shop or bar, where either one can leave if they don't feel the date should go any further. I have the disadvantage of being slightly disabled, due to a fall that caused a broken hip. I use a walker now, but drive (safely) and get around pretty well. I will perhaps graduate to a cane for better mobility. Stairs are a problem, especially hauling the walker up and down them. I live in a building with elevators. When I travel, I usually arrange for wheelchair service at arrival-departure and intermediate stops.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelExpert
I enjoyChastity devices
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasThe encounter that I have NOT had but that would give me the greatest pleasure would involve verbal humiliation, perhaps being forced to dress as a woman and also forced into an oral sex situation in which I would be REQUIRED to satisfy my Female Goddess.

Fetishes

FetishesArmpits, Crossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Medical / Enema, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings, Shoes / Boots, Smoking, ring, Tongue Fetish, Voyeurism

Sexual Activities

Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Fetish clubs, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":NO HOMOSEXUAL ACTIVITIES. I AM ALL FOR GAY RIGHTS/MARRIAGE ETC., BUT AM STRICTLY HETEROSEXUAL IN MY TASTES AND DESIRES.

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationAirplane
Fantasy sex partner:A DOMINANT, TEACHER-TYPE OR NURSE OR POSSIBLY TAKING THE ROLE OF STEPMOTHER)(IT ALL STARTED WITH HER BACK WHEN I WAS AN ADOLESCENT) WHO WILL INITIATE, TAKE THE LEAD, TEACH ME TO WORSHIP HER....

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Messing with the Mind
I'm seeking:Total 24/7 control
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Other