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Looking for a LTR I can be sub, dom, or switch with you in...

Intelligent, creative, kinky, loyal, devoted, honest, faithful... Very much needing a LTR with an ongoing BDSM element (I want a relationship that will have a high probability of success, but that will satisfy my needs and desires and which by doing so I can satisfy the lady I find as thoroughly and completely). I can dom or sub, would love a relationship where we can take turns as desired, though I am happy to be one or the other if I can just find what I am looking for!

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CBT Preferences

I prefer:Depends on my partner
Things I enjoy:Squeezing, Pinching, Weights/Parachutes, Stretching, Stroking
Toys I like to use:Ball crusher, Ball stretcher, Parachute, Humbler, Testicle cuffs
Orgasm during play:Sometimes

Ball Busting preferences

How high is your threshold of pain?Intermediate

Strapon Preferences

Do you enjoy giving or receiving the strapon?Receiving
How much Strapon can you handle?Long and Thin, Average Sized, Short and Thin, Soft and Slow

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildSlender
Height183 cm
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorLight brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Thick
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Wants to RelocateYes
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyArt / Music / Literature
Employment StatusSelf-employed
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleAuthor / Publisher

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchSomeone who wants to build a long term hopefully permanent relationship, based on mutual interests in the real world, but also the same needs wants and desires at home... I wouldn't want to go very long without being able to pursue our kinky adventures together. I have a very high sex drive, very high levels of kink and desire, and I need someone who can rival myself in these areas. Whether I end up sub, dom, or switch, I would thoroughly worship and spoil such a woman as can give me what I so badly need.
Our first dateSpontaneity. Maybe dinner and the casino, and see how things go from there?

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSwitch
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Breast / nipple torture, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Cupping, Electro torture, Femdom, Genital torture, Hot wax, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner

Fetishes

FetishesLace / Lingerie, Lactation, Other

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI need it daily
Anal sex isI love it
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets
"Off Limits":Bathroom type bodily functions. No golden showers, no scat. Those are really my hard limits.

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI want to take turns say a few days or a few weeks at a time being each other's sex slave then we switch... I fantasize all the time about being dominated and all manners of toys and devices being used on me in various ways... Prostate milking... Strapons... Machines... Lots of bondage... I crave so much.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Experimentation
Role:I'm open to experimenting
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Other
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Other
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas